Istikhara is to seek guidance from Allah when one is
faced with a problem to which no solution is apparent
Istikhara is to seek guidance from Allah
when one is faced with a problem to which no solution is
apparent. Whenever a person is faced with a difficult problem,
or becomes hesitant in making a decision and his knowledge of
the matter is insufficient to guide him then after seeking
advice from trusted friends he should turn to Allah and
beseech His grace. He should willingly and with an open heart
and mind supplicate for divine guidance and ask for direction
so that the problem is solved in his own best interest. The
Du'aa at such an occasion is called Istikhara. Istikhara is in
fact an invaluable teaching of Prophet Mohammed with which the Muslims have been
favored. This
blessing could give solace to many for all times to come. It
is related in the Hadith that Prophet Mohammed use to teach
the Istikhara to the companions like the Qur'an is taught
to children. In another Hadith it is stated that 'He does not
fail who makes Istikhara and he does not regret who makes
Mashwarah (consultation). In the Masnoon Istikhara, after one
has carried out his responsibility as best as one can, one
should hand over the entire matter and oneself to the
limitless knowledge of Allah. By resorting to Istikhara
one is now retrieved of making a decision on ones own.
Whenever counsel is sought from a respectable and experienced
person, it is expected that he will give good advise and
assist to the best of his ability. Similarly Istikhara is to
seek counsel that the all-Knowing and Merciful Allah? Once
Istikhara is made then Allah Ta'ala will surely guide him to
do what is best for him. Now there can be no perplexity. Only
that will happen which Allah wills and which is good
for ones own sake though one may not be able to see it
immediately. It is not necessary that one must experience or
see an evident change or vision. Allah alone knows what
is best for His servants. It is related in the Hadith that
'Success and good tidings for the son of Aadam is in
performing Istikhara and his misfortune lies in not making
Istikhara'.
Method of Istikhara
When making Istikhara begin with
performing two Rakaats Nafal Salaat. Then with all sincerity
recite the following Du'a.
Dua for Isthikara
In
the Name of Allah, The Benevolent, The Merciful
Allaahumma innee astakheeruka
bi ilmika wa-astaqdiruka biqudratika wa-as'aluka min fadhlika
al-adheem. Fa innaka taqdiru walaa aqdiru. Wa ta'lamu walaa
a'alamu wa anta allaamul ghuyoob. Allaahumma in kunta ta'lamu
anna haadhal-amr khayrun liy fiy deeniy wa-ma'aashiy
wa-aaqibat amriy, fa'qdruhliy wa-yassirh liy thumma baarik liy
feehi. Wa in-kunta ta'lamu anna haadhal amr sharrun liy fiy
deeniy wa-ma'aashiy was-'aaqibat amriy. Fa asrifh annee
wa-srif 'anhu. Wa aqdurh liyal khayr hayth kaana thumma
a-rdhiniy bihee
O Allah!! Behold I ask You the good through Your
Knowledge, and ability through Your Power, and beg (Your
favor) out of Your infinite Bounty. For surely You have
Power; I have none. You know all; I know not. You are the
Great Knower of all things. O Allah! If in Your Knowledge this
matter (at this point you may mention your inquiry) be good for my faith (Deen), for my livelihood, and for
the consequences of my affairs, then ordain it for me, and
make it easy for me, and bless me therein. But if in Your
Knowledge, this matter (at this point you may mention your
inquiry) be bad for my faith (Deen) for my
livelihood, and for the consequences of my affairs, then turn
it away from me, and turn me away there from, and ordain for me
the good wherever it be, and cause me to be pleased therewith.
While reciting this Du'aa when one
reaches HAADHAL AMR (THIS MATTER) at both places he should
think or make mention of his/her problem or inquiry. May Allah guide and assist us
all.